What do I have to do to get an accurate and honest appraisal of me as a person?
This follows this whole ‘people saying stuff in anger’ thing.
I get called all sorts of things when someone is angry. Useless, selfish, uncaring, stupid, etc etc etc. I get called out on my biggest flaws and things I didn’t really even know were wrong with me.
Here’s the thing though. After the whole anger thing passes, I’m told none of that was true. Or only true to a point, but not really.
Sigh. I tend to take these things personally. But only because it comes from important people to me. So what am I supposed to do here?
I suppose not care. And have the insight to figure out what I do right or wrong, myself.
That could be considered ignorant/arrogant though.
Oh God. It’s just so hard for me to fathom because I don’t just say things in anger for the heck of it. To call out people’s qualities or whatever without reason.
Eugh what a mess.